The death of a loved one is a sad and distressing experience. Immediate family members will be in a distraught and emotional state. Aside from grieving their loss, the family must now also tend to other priorities, one of which is finalizing funeral and burial details. You could easily pass it off to other people but they might not want that kind of responsibility. In the end, someone has to do it, right?
So, it’s time to soldier on and give your loved one a sendoff that will be remembered fondly by family and friends. If you’re having problems focusing on what to do next, we may have something to get you going. But it’s also worth noting to check and remember if the deceased has planned for their passing in advance.
First, you must accept the fact that your loved one has finally moved on to a more peaceful and better place. In that better place, there is no pain and suffering. No stressful and tiresome environments. So, cheer up! They may not want you frowning right now.
While you may miss their presence, always know that their memories will live on in your hearts and minds. Their lives will now be forever remembered and celebrated with each story and memory.
Follow their wishes
In most cases, the deceased would have left instructions on how they want their funeral to go about. Respect their wishes, as these are the last acts that will define and remember them.
Their wishes could be anything. It could be a personal preference to cremation rather than a burial. Perhaps they like sunflowers instead of roses. Or maybe they would prefer a funeral where none of the guests are allowed to be sad and cry. Follow their instructions and you’re good to go.
If they didn’t leave any instructions, don’t worry. Try your best to make their final appearance a memorable and positive event. Make the event a living memory bank of your loved one.
Planned in advance
In most places, such as the Americas, Asia, and the UK, people can have prepaid funerals. It has started to become a rather unusual but understandable trend. Individuals plan ahead with funeral directors for when it’s their time to go.
Everything from caskets to flowers and everything else is planned and already paid for. With this, all their final wishes would be followed and carried out by the funeral director and his/her team. This removes the heavy weight on the shoulders of the surviving family.
While it may seem a rather morose outlook, it is the best way to secure your life after your loved one’s passing. Death should never be a negative and unfortunate event. It should be a remembrance of one’s life. Everyone can look back and remember all the good times that were shared with this person and how life was better when they were around. If you are considering preplanning your funeral, it’s best to find a reputable funeral planner or manager in your location.